Writing and Blogging: What I learned

I began this blog as a project for my class. The first day I received the assignment I thought it would be so easy.  “How hard can it be to blog once a day?” I said to myself. I never imagined that blogging would require so much time and effort. It’s not just typing down a few words and being done. Blogging takes so much more than that and it’s something I greatly underestimated. During the 30 days that I had to blog, I learned quite a few things about social media and myself.

Blogging is very demanding. Keeping up with posts daily is hard to do. Grabbing and keeping people’s interests are even harder. Sometimes I would get so caught up with other stuff I’d forget to blog. Some days I couldn’t think of things that would interest people.

One thing blogging has taught me that I need to be aware of my intended audience. Throughout class I learned that my readers are the most important factor in my blogs. What would make them want to continuously visit my blog? If I can find that, then my blog, or any social media, will be successful.

Even though it was hard to keep up with, I really enjoyed doing this blog. Will I continue to blog? Most likely. Even if it isn’t on this blog, I’ll definitely continue to keep blogging. Blogging helps me to connect with others and keep myself organized.

Thanks for reading!!

Christmas gift ideas for writers

It’s the Christmas season, and it’s also time to find gifts for your friends, family, and those known as writers.

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If you’re searching for a gift for a writer in your life then look no further! Here are 10 Christmas gift ideas for writers:

1.) Aqua Notes

For when you just gotta write down notes in the shower.

2.) This Writer Emergency Pack

Save a writer and get them this pack full of idea cards and tips.

3.) This Lord of the Rings inspired…ring

Lord of the Rings fans will love this replica of the infamous ring.

4.) The Only Grammar Book You’ll Ever Need

A great writing resource which covers topics from punctuation to word choice.

5.) Book Worm Earrings

Writers can show off their bookworm pride with these earrings.

6.) I Write, What’s Your Superpower? Mug

When the powers of coffee and writing are combined, writers become unstoppable.

7.) The Writer’s Toolbox

This book is filled with exercises and instructions to help jump-start writing ideas.

8.) Do not disturb sign

The perfect gift for the writer at work.

9.) Caffeinated Writer Spoon

This stamped spoon is for writers everywhere.

10.) Judging your grammar shirt

For that literary friend that’s always correcting everyone’s grammar.

Did you find any gifts perfect for a writer you know? Thanks for reading!!

 

Future uncertainties: What happens after graduation.

As I get closer to graduation I start to feel more and more uncertain.  A year from now I will be earning my BA in Writing and Communication. I can’t help but compare myself with other students.

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This includes aspiring nurses, teachers, veterinarians, and many others. These students seem to have their paths planned out. They know exactly what they will be doing 10 years from now, while I honestly don’t know what I’ll be doing tomorrow.

I’ve struggled with finding what I want to do as a career. As of now, I plan to go into writing. Whether that be writing for an organization or as a journalist or maybe even a freelance writer. I’m not sure. With the internet, print media is becoming obsolete. As an aspiring journalist, this is scary. Will I face more competition writing online? Will I be able to maintain credibility and stability writing in a digital world?

The uncertainty of job opportunities is a very real fear for me. If I can make it as a journalist is also a daunting thought. I can’t say when these fears will go away after graduation or if they will disappear at all. For now all I can do is to work on becoming a better writer and a better me. Getting to the top isn’t easy, and I know I’ll have to work hard to get there.

4 signs you’re having burnout

Fellow writers, have you ever felt so tired of writing you want to quit? If so you have experienced burnout. Most writers have experienced it at some point. Burnout is when a person becomes mentally or physically exhausted from overworking. In this case, it is getting worn out from writing.  I have gotten burnout plenty of times due to writing for the paper, school, and on original projects.  The danger of burnout is that it can lead to serious problems such as depression, anxiety, and even illness.

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How can you tell if you are experiencing burnout?. I searched the inter-webs for some symptoms of burnout, and how to combat them. I found plenty and even thought of some myself, but here are 4 big signs of burnout (and their solutions):

1.) Fatigue

Do you find yourself extremely tired when writing? People who are fatigued will find themselves exhausted, drained and depleted.

The solution? Rest

Give yourself breaks from writing. Whether this break is by taking a nap, walk, playing a game, or pampering yourself at the spa, taking some time for self-care is extremely important. (For more on self care, read this article).

2.) Loss of enjoyment

We’ve all been there. Where you just want to put your pen down, lock away your keyword, and never write again. I have to admit that over the years, writing has become less enjoyable than it was when I was younger. Feeling like writing is more of a chore than a joy is a big sign you’re feeling burnout.

The solution? Go back to your roots

Think of what made you love writing in the first place. If you remember the positive aspects of why you love writing, that enthusiasm will flow into your current works.

3.) Lack of concentration/ being forgetful.

According to psychologytoday: “Lack of focus and mild forgetfulness are early signs. Later, the problems may get to the point where you can’t get your work done and everything begins to pile up.” Writers who have a hard time keeping up with their works or just forgetting them all together, most likely suffer from writer’s burnout

The solution: Keep a schedule

Schedules will help to keep you on track. If you keep works and assignments written down you won’t forget them.  This can help get you focused and finish any undone work. After this you’ll be ready to tackle any projects ahead of you!

4.) Depression

This is one of the more serious signs: being depressed. Writers, and just about any person working in a specific field, can find themselves unsatisfied with their work. This in turn results in feeling guilty and worthless. Depression makes writing (and life in general) more difficult.

The solution: Think positive and seek help.

Despite how neurotypical this can sound, thinking positive is a big key to fighting depression. You have to put yourself in a good mindset if you expect to overcome depression. For some people, depression is a life-long battle, but keeping a positive mindset can help to ease the pain.

If the depression becomes worse, it is always okay to reach out to someone for help. Whether that be a friend or therapist, talking to someone about your emotions can be a big step towards recovery.

Hopefully this will help someone out there suffering from burnout. Happy writing!!

 

 

Want to submit your work? Look here!

Are you looking for websites and magazines to submit your short stories? The Write Life has complied a list of sites and magazines to send your stories and here are 5 sites on the list I think you should check out.

1.) The Georgia Review

Features different types of fiction, essays, and book reviews. It’s very prestigious and submissions are now open.

2.) The Atlantic

The Write Life says it’s highly respected and publishes both big names and up-and-coming writers. Fiction and non-fiction works are welcome.

3.) Crazyhorse

As you can guess from the name, this site features stories that are out of the ordinary.

4.) Vestal Review

Do you have short stories you want to submit? The Vestal Review takes submissions of up to 500 words and also accept content that is rated R.

5.) Shimmer

This magazine is looking for authors of different races, genders, etc. If you have any fantasy stories with a diverse cast, then this magazine is right for you!

Are you interested in any of this sites? Thanks for reading!

 

Read this! The Bell Jar

This is a novel I’m currently reading and so far I really enjoy it. The Bell Jar is a 1963 novel written by Sylvia Plath about a woman struggling with mental illness.

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Here is Goodreads’ synopsis of the novel:

“Esther Greenwood is brilliant, beautiful, enormously talented, and successful, but slowly going under—maybe for the last time. In her acclaimed and enduring masterwork, Sylvia Plath brilliantly draws the reader into Esther’s breakdown with such intensity that her insanity becomes palpably real, even rational—as accessible an experience as going to the movies. A deep penetration into the darkest and most harrowing corners of the human psyche, The Bell Jar is an extraordinary accomplishment and a haunting American classic.”

I recommend others to read Plath’s novel too. It’s intriguing and full of emotion. Make sure to check it out!

My favorite genres to read

When I was younger I would spend a good amount of my free time reading. Nowadays, with college and other stuff in life finding time to read for enjoyment is really hard. As with anything if something is important to you, you can make time for it. I already have books lined up to be read in my Kindle library and I am on the hunt for more. So what genres do I like? Here are my top four favorite novel genres to read:

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1.) Fantasy

My favorite genre of all time is definitely fantasy. Knights, dragons, and wizards dwelling in times long ago have been staples in my reading list for quite some time now. In fact, the writings of Llyod Alexander, J.R.R Tolkien, and J.K Rowling have inspired my fantasy stories.

2.) Comedy

When I’m feeling down, I love to read something that makes me laugh. The best thing about comedy is that it’s very flexible. You can find humor in all genres.

3.) Romance/Slice of Life

When I was younger I would avoid romance novels like the plague. I didn’t want to read them because I thought they were all vapid and generic. However I came to learn that not all romance books are the same. I didn’t realize how much I liked to read stories about people falling in love and simply living until I read them. Almost half of my Kindle library is now composed of romance novels.

4.)Suspense

Suspense novels literally keep you in suspsense. I love getting caught up in a tense moment and getting excited about turning to the next page. Suspense novels are enjoyable and keep you on the edge of your seat.

So there are my top five favorite genres! Is your list the same or do you have other genres you enjoy? If so, leave them in the comments!

 

5 best cities for writers to live

As I mentioned in earlier blogs, living in rural places can be difficult for writers. If you are a writer and looking to move to a city, then look here! I complied a list of the five best cities for writers to reside.

1.) San Diego, California

San Diego has a huge and growing freelance writer community. Though it can be costly to live here, the environment is just right for writers.

2.) New York, New York

With an average writer salary of $50,593 there’s no wonder New York is a great place for writers. New York City is one of the (if not most) global cities in the world. It is also home to many publishing houses.

3.) Washington, DC

Known as the “most literate city in the nation”, Washington, DC has a strong writing community. Bonus points if you are interested in writing for politics.

4.) Chicago, IL

Not only does Chicago have a thriving urban environment and low cost of living, it also has plenty of writing conventions, workshops, and festivals. Writers of all genres flock to the 3rd largest city in the United States.

5.) Philadelphia, PA

Marketing consultant Brian Honigman has this to say about the writers and the city of brotherly love: “Philadelphia is an ideal city for freelancers due to its tight-knit community of independent contractors who are more than willing to help each other out,”. It is said to be urban yet cozy, and very affordable.

Did any of places make you want to pack and suitcase and go? Thanks for reading!

Self Care for Writers

When do writers rest? No matter how hard we try we’re not robots that can continuously type out pages.

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Writers have to remember to take care of themselves. Self care is very important. Remember to take some time for yourself and relax. Whether that be napping, meditation, playing your favorite game, or just taking a walk.

In order for us to be at our writing peak, our minds have to be in good condition. Be sure to practice healthy eating habits and sleeping habits. When we feel good we produce good things. If I’m feeling groggy or hungry there’s a little chance I will write something good.

We have to listen to our bodies and not overexert ourselves. Burnout is a big thing for writers. Just taking a hour or two break a day can help to break up monotonous writing. Writing should be happy and writers should be healthy. Be sure to take of yourselves and practice self care!

 

 

 

Read this!: The Kite Runner

I first read the Kite Runner when I was in high school. Until this day, Khaled Hosseini’s story of a young boy named Amir and his friend in war-torn Afghanistan is unforgettable.

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Here is GoodRead’s synopsis of the novel:

“Amir is the son of a wealthy Kabul merchant, a member of the ruling caste of Pashtuns. Hassan, his servant and constant companion, is a Hazara, a despised and impoverished caste. Their uncommon bond is torn by Amir’s choice to abandon his friend amidst the increasing ethnic, religious, and political tensions of the dying years of the Afghan monarchy, wrenching them far apart. But so strong is the bond between the two boys that Amir journeys back to a distant world, to try to right past wrongs against the only true friend he ever had.”

Although the book is fiction, I had never read a novel before from someone’s point of view who lived in the Middle East. It showed the good and bad parts of Amir’s life. It also shows the lowest and highest peaks of humanity. It reveals the unfairness of caste systems, and how devastating war can be. I definitely recommend this as a read.